Tinder

I don't know if anyone has found real love on tinder, I kind of did some research before jumping into the app trying to see how it works or if I could make new friends, or maybe find THE ONE! Super Naive of me! It's just a social media platform, you don't know if the person you are talking to is actually the one you thought he or she is. The person could be fake. And being a girl/woman you have to be really careful. Trust is good, but don't be blindfolded with trust. Whenever you are having a blind date make sure you tell someone close to you about it and where you are going out, or you could bring your friends along without making your date notice, so that in case it's a fake person, they could come to your rescue!

I know how it feels to be hopeful in this hopeless world. Thinking that every person you meet is trustworthy. Some might play with your feelings and emotions. Lie or Truth..God Knows ! I understand you want to believe that all that the guy is telling you is the truth. But sometimes...it just doesn't happen as expected! and Yes having loads of expectations hurts :(

If only he was different :/ He would give me all his attention and be my ONCE UPON A TIME :'(

Sometimes it's best to just Let it be ..Hard to forget about the person you've got really attached to, but if he is meant to be he will,  even if you wish for him with all your heart! If only he was doing same!
Lots a questions left unanswered, maybe with time we'll know. Or we'll have enough time to just let it go and move on, back into our normal lives.

No matter what just believe in yourself, work on yourself because YOU DO YOU. Never compromise your feelings or life for anyone else. Follow your heart and be happy always. You are all beautiful and if someone couldn't appreciate you for what you are, then his loss! You deserve better. And somewhere your Once Upon A Time must be coming looking for you.

On this note, Love Yourself ♥
xoxo

Love at First Sight

I have always wondered what love at first sight looks/feels like, though i kind of didn't believe in it. I thought that was plain infatuation. Until on the 15th of February 2015, a little puppy came into my life.

He was about one a half months old i guess. Totally skinny, undernourished, bony, feeble,  unclean, smelly, but still i fell in love with this little man. The moment i opened my front door, i saw this little one with those cute puppy eyes glaring at me filled with love and affection and trust. That moment went like slow motion and totally indescribable. He just wanted affection and care which he has been deprived from since birth. 

Even though he had hard times with some "humans" previously, he still shook that little tail of him. This was the cutest moment ever. And then i brought him some milk and he licked my fingers ♥ It felt like the first time ever I'm having such a powerful contact with a puppy. A puppy who's going to change my life forever. the amazing part was that he wasn't a shy puppy and did trust us at his level best. Then after a week or two was his first visit to the vet. 

Then from this skinny little one he transformed into this: 

We actually though he was of brownish color until he took a bath! Well this is what he looked like after a week. My healthy little guy. We pamper him sooo much and really can't get enough of him. My day won't go by happily if i don't hug him, kiss him, play with him, abide to his tantrums...He's my bundle of joy and gives me every reason to be happy. How many of my clothes he tears up or even my shoes...i love still him to depth. I spend most of my time with him. 

He is the reason that made me changed the way i used to look at things. For instance, I've never knew what's like to love your pet unconditionally. I have always thought about it but never did experience it till the day my baby came into my life. He showed me how to live in the present and forget the bad pasts. I can trust him more than i do to a person. 

I was the most introvert as a person. I seriously do not like to socialize with many people, even in my neighborhood. I'm seriously not used to walk alone on the street or even go to the nearby shop. I guess i was too lazy or scared to confront people. But now all has changed. I'm more confident to confront people from my neighborhood. All thanks to my dog...I sometime do take him for a walk for him to play with his fellow friends or do his toilet, run on the streets like crazy chasing cats.

Well he mostly prefer people to dogs. I wish i could let him in my room or in the house, but he's not allowed. But he is certainly allowed in the kitchen waiting for his food to come. Every time he comes in he always pee or run like crazy in the house. I don't care about cleaning up the mess because I love him. I'll do everything to make him comfortable. Although he lives outside, he has got a large space enough cozy for him and we're still planning big for him and thanks god it doesn't snow in Mauritius.

The day i will have my house, i'll let my babies in the house. But right now, all i want to think about is him. I think about him all day, he's just like my little baby. A little noise he makes make me rush to him to see what's happening. Ohh well i also talk a lot about him to my friends and relatives. Some will not get it to why i am feeling so...the answer to it is maybe you never did know what loving a dog is. Adopt one and see how much your life will change. He is actually the reason why i want to be vegetarian and later on vegan.

Ohh heyy...my baby's name is Scooby-Doo, because he is totally sweet! He's got lots of nicknames though. He 's my positive vibe and strength. All i pray to god is to always keep him by my side. I just can't imagine my life without him. He is my everything. Words are not enough to say how much he means to me. Paws are what make me happy, they are the cutest thing on earth....everything!

Not everyone deserve to own a dog. I've seen dogs in deplorable situations. This is bad. I just hope the law in my country will aim more towards animal welfare.

♥♥♥I LOVE YOU MY SCOOBY-DOO ♥♥♥

XOXO

♥

Waiting for The Right One - Love- The heart wants what it wants!

You don't fall in love by following rules nor do you have to listen to anyone about their opinions when it comes to love, because when it will happen, you'll be sure about your feelings and you'll feel that, Yes, this is love. That should be magical..unique..breathtaking..unbelievable..that should really be something special, undeniable, indescribable..that should be love.

When you are single you will find so many to tell you, even your friends, that you need to try to date that guy or girl. Or you are wasting time finding the perfect one because there is no such thing as perfect. The fact is that, somewhere, there is the perfect one for you whom only you would recognize, and not others..perfect doesn't mean flawless, but for you she/he is perfect, you have accepted the person for who she/he is, and that's what really matters. 

Many do find love early, while some has to wait until the right moment comes.
That's basically who I am #SingleSinceBirth .. well that doesn't mean  that I have never found someone attractive.....and that's what we call CRUSH...
I personally haven't feel what love is but i just do assume and imagine how it would be...and it would be magical....Someday my Superman will come.. 

No matter what anyone say, I'll prefer to wait for the right one...Choosy or not, I've got certain expectations, who doesn't? Sometimes you feel that you deserve better, someone to really love you..because seriously I have seen many rushing into relationships and then go to the "crying lot"
I personally feel that you should know about what you want and what you want to achieve. 

In high school, i did see a lot of teenagers with their boyfriends or girlfriends hanging around, but the thing is...what's the use of such relationships when it will lead you to nowhere. I've got friends trying to introduce me to some guys (you really do get influenced from peer pressures at times), but I never did like that those things, neither those guys, maybe because since long I knew what i wanted and how I would want things to be. And believe me, when I think about those days back, those were the right decisions I have ever made for myself. 

Not having a boyfriend is no big deal....Believe, someday it will happen and that day you'll know why it never worked with anybody before. Love is not something you should rush into. When it will happen, it will leave you mesmerized, totally, completely on cloud 9. I strongly have faith on my beliefs and Superman gonna come someday, then why rush. Let Love find its way.

xoxo

♥♥♥

Disclaimer: This wasn't meant to hurt anyone's opinion. My 2 cents though :D

A little bit of mixed feelings...if anybody can relate..

I don't know what it is.

Am confused about my own feelings.

Is that love?

Is that true love?

Is he the one?

Why am i feeling so strange?

Why isn't there any love at first sight?

Why when i see him it feels just like an infatuation and nothing else.

He is nice, charming...

Then why don't i feel anything?

When he kissed me on the cheeks,

When i sat next to him,

I just felt that the start of a new strong friendship is growing.

Nothing else.

He made me feel special.

But i don't know why am still waiting...

Waiting for what?

Deep inside my heart there's something that's telling me not to rush,

"he's not the one, there's someone else waiting for you out there, you just have to wait for the right moment to come, stop right now, stop those feelings for the other guy...WAIT!"

I don't know whom to listen to.

Maybe am just expecting too much because i feel i deserve much more than that.

Am not being selfish, it's just that i know what am worth..I've got a long way to go in life.

I feel that there's someone whose first glimpse of him would make me feel that He's the one.

The one with whom I'd  feel totally safe and feel like am living a dream and an amazing adventure.

When I'll look at him i can say that Yes, He's my Man.

But right now, what am i doing?

I just don't have any idea of what am feeling, if that guy is the one though my heart is telling me something else. I know that he loves me...but what about me? What am i feeling guilty about?

That am doing him wrong though i made it clear that we are just friends and he told me the same..

What should i do?

Wait?....and just continue having a nice dependable friend on the other hand?...and just continue with my career till the right one finds me?

I just don't know! Maybe time will give me an answer. I just hope that during these time i don't take any wrong decision that i might regret later.

But right now i can rejoice myself on having a nice gentleman friend...

Oh Lord! Help!


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Disclaimer: Am not in love or anything...just trying to write something "poetic" think so it is...about love/crush..

Conclusion: when you're in love, it wouldn't be doubtful.. if not,its not love.. Be sure about your feelings so as not to jump into an undesired relationship!

Beautiful Response by Taylor Swift to her fan!

"I think we grow up thinking the only love that counts as true love is the kind that lasts forever or is fully realized. When you have a broken heart, the first thing a stranger will ask is ‘how long were you two together?’ As if your pain can be determined by how long you were with someone. Or if you were with them at all. I don’t think that’s how it works. I think unrequited love is just as valid as any other kind. It’s just as crushing and just as thrilling. No matter what happens in this situation, I want you to remember that what you are doing is selfless and beautiful and kind. You are loving someone purely because you love them, not because you think you’ll ever have your affections reciprocated. You are admiring something for its beauty, without needing to own it. Feel good about being the kind of person who loves selflessly. I think someday you’ll find someone who loves you in that exact same way.”

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This is the most sweetest thing about love that I've ever read and seen.. Many people would tell you to just move on but you know that it's gonna take a lot of time specially when you admire someone without him knowing about your feelings. You do wish if only he could feel the same way, but, that rarely happens. But hey beautiful, never lose hope. Someday someone would step in your life and will teach you what love is really about because you are so special and unique. Continue being happy and nice to people. Nice things happen to nice people :)

One of the cutest love quote I've found online

" Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, that's her..."