Types Of Friends

A friend in need is a friend indeed! - To how much this is true to some of us sounds quite minimal. Lucky are the ones who have true ones. Sooo let's get started! (Psst: I will be using 'she' mostly because I'm a girl and it's more easy for me to express my thoughts)

NUMBER 1....The Reliable

So once in a time in our life we've come across that one or many friends that we can count on to. 

No matter what, you know that your secrets are safe with them and whatever be the circumstance, your friend(s) will always be there. TBH I sometimes wish for a squad life like the pretty little liars. They are perfect!

NUMBER 2....The Frenemy

Well for this type I can definitely tell u guys that's it's not worth having the person around....at all...! We can all relate. Like, for instance, there's that girl in your class who is totally selfish and mean towards you. Ultimately there's no reason for you to like her, but still you have to act indifferent when she talks to your friends..!!..yaaaa..there's one of your friends who do talks to her despite the fact that she knows her squad doesn't like former. So now when she's around, you kind of feel the need to smile at her and act as if you guys are friends. 
Eww..can't stand that!


NUMBER 3....The Insecure

So this person is the most selfish, hypocrite and egoistic person in your group. Why say? Because of her insecurities that you don't outstand her in everything; in your studies or to get a job. She wants all the best of things to be in her closet ONLY. Now the point is how she gets to do it! At first you will believe in whatever thing she says..why?.. Because she is innocent..innocent in everything, while the rest of the world is selfish towards her. Maybe she's having family problems, and as such, she will act totally desperate. Well this is based on a real life situation where the girl is super desperate and seeks comfort with her 'best friends', but she only shares her feelings with only two of them, out of four. So basically, the former two will in turn tell the others what's wrong with the girl. Everyone of them will try to keep her happy and no matter what time it is, they'd be there for her. Good friends ya? What happens is that the insecure one will always complain about not having time for her studies, she barely eats, have health issues...... Oh Wait... at the end of the semester, she's the one to have the best of results! Whilst her 'best friends' don't...why? Because they were busy dealing with her desperate life!  Or even better, the girl who didn't have time to revise or prepare notes is the one to be having more revision notes than you! That person is just an opportunist with multiple personalities within, playing with other's emotions!


NUMBER 4....The 'perfect'

We all met this one....the girl who thinks she is Barbie, because there's tons of guys after her..or she is after them?! O_o Anyway.. The point is that she thinks she's got it all; money, beauty... but wait there's something missing in her!.. What?? Moral values. There's been many of them in my class, but what's the use showing off when you are empty within or even on the outside.. Basically these girls have had a real bad time with teacher or lectures!

NUMBER 5....The Swag

You can refer to them as the bullies or the most coward people. These guys gonna act as super a**holes to you as they think you are too innocent or don't have enough or any friend at all. What they are going to do is try to lower your self esteem. But you need to act indifferent coz there's no reason why you should get influenced with some hardcore losers who have their lives hanging around..in the void! Because trust me, when you will be achieving your goals, these mean douche won't even matter to you, instead they will envy your success and gossip as this is the only thing in life they can do. Place these types in a hard situation and they will all burst into tears! 

NUMBER 6....The Pendulum

This guy who you thought was your friend and gossiped along with about some mean girls in your class. However, all what you've told him is going to those mean ones. You will never know about it till one of those meanies will spit one of the things you've said before, but not to them. So now you'll think to yourself how come they know about it.. ----> That freak!!!

NUMBER 7....The Actual Real Friend

This person is going to be your best friend ever. She kinds of trust people easily, and in turn she's left to be the most hurt and misunderstood. She'll be there always but in turn nobody around for her. She'll sacrifice her time for you, but this will never be reciprocate. Basically, she's mostly on her own and reflects if she actually does have a friend. Some will never understand the meaning of having a true friend around...Their LOSS. 

NUMBER 8....The Loners

So you have a group of friends which is supposed to consist of friends..of actual best friends. The point is that, in the group , there will be two girls who will keep things only for each other! Facebook is where the bragging starts and continues. Well there're some people whose friendship lives exist only virtually. Then what is the use of being in the group?! That's not what friendship is about. Moreover there is one of the girls who will always cancel plans at the last minutes because of family commitments, because we don't have one! And when there's some other plans in which she's super interested in and someone else wouldn't be able to make it, she'll be the most freaked out person! Double-Standard you no say? You will find other loners like those who had to join your group or else they will be left alone, else who will protect them from the meanies or who will share lecture notes with her. She might not be involved at all with the group, not go shopping or anything! 

Moral : Choose your friends well. Even if you might end up alone, it's not the end of the world. You're worth more than that to deserve fakers! Just shake it off ;)

xoxo 

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